Waiting on others...

 Ever find yourself waiting on others?

Then before you know it the day is gone and you wished you had done something else?

I discovered recently that was just an excuse I'd use to not do something I knew I should be doing for my own betterment.

For instance, waking up with the intention to hit the gym but you then end up waiting on others because of some plan for the day they mentioned or you just get FOMO.

If you go to the gym, you might miss out on something exciting with them. So you decide to hold out.

Are you chasing good times with others?

How about creating your own good times - getting fit - completing a project etc... and have others chase you to join your good times.

Sure you can try balancing it so you get the best of both worlds, just look out for when you use it as an excuse to not get on with your own universe.

I grew up thinking adults know best, professionals know best... but then as an older person I realise no one really knows what you thought they knew.

Your best to focus on your own universe and be very competent at it, then perhaps you can be that adult that actually knows.

Your universe will then expand as you intended, you'll help others along the way and others will have the FOMO to join your party, not the other way around.

I guess in short it comes down to leading the way and not waiting to follow others.

Be the blame for your success as opposed to blaming others for your failures,

Blade