Such an easy thing to break... probably one of the easiest things to do in life... just back out... get out... and no one can stop you... they can try... but they really can't stop you.
So that's the great thing about promises...
The bad thing though... is that for every promise you break... your influence and stake in that group or relationship drops.
If you keep breaking promises, you'll end up with no relationships or groups. You end up alone. Life is pretty hard that way.
Life is much easier when relationships and groups are on your side and helping you.
Think your promises over... it would be good to apply a 30 day rule on your promises... that is, give yourself 30 days to think it over before you make the promise.
Nothing worse than committing to a promise just to please someone and then not be able to keep it - that's lethal for relationships.
A small disappointment of saying no for the moment and giving it 30 days to think about could save much heart ache.
Save yourself the future trouble... consider applying a rule to your promises... 30 days to think about it, or something like that.
Blade
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